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Lots of men in this thread real upset about this app pointing out how the majority men are shit
Defaming people without giving them a chance to defend themselves, talk about shit people...
But have you considered man bad?
On one hand, yes. On the other, women have, based upon crime statistics, legitimate reasons to avoid putting themselves in a situation where they may be assaulted or murdered for reporting problematic and/or worrisome behavior.
I don't think creating an incel style circlejerk is the best solution.
I agree. Some sort of solution is necessary but this probably isn't it.
It's not defamation if it's true
And its legally actionable libel/slander if false.
Citation of course needed with that one.
The only people who will be listed on the app are people who are either deserving they've been on there or people who don't deserve to be on there but some woman in their lives has decided to inact some vengeance justified or otherwise.
What are you basing the majority of men are shit on? Confirmation bias?
Well im a man. And most men i interact with are casually misandrist, ableist and homophobic. I can't imagine they behave any better when they're trying to fuck you
I'm a man too and I haven't interacted with someone like that since what, university? Maybe the problem is in who you choose to spend time with?
So confirmation bias. Gotcha. That's generally not a great way to make sweeping generalizations about 50% of the population.
You ever hear that adage about smelling shit wherever you go, maybe check your shoes?
Oh come on, you know how Those People are
It's an antisocial surveillance system for antisocial people, and creates a(n even more) antagonistic relationship between men and women.
Dating apps have been a disaster for dating, and this is perhaps the worst among them.
Lots of misandrists in this thread framing security failures as sexism against men