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[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I feel like a lot of people think of gaslighting as if it were intentional, but when I have encountered gaslighting, it has usually come from people who have a different view of events and are unwilling to accept that their viewpoint isn't the absolute truth of the situation.

They will argue from the viewpoint of "the way I remember things is the way things happened".

Then when you say that they are gaslighting you, they will say that they are not.

In their mind, they're just telling the truth of events as they remember them, no malice intended.