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I hate big tech controlling social media. I desperately want social media to be federated.

I really love community-driven social media like Reddit. Lemmy feels… too small. I really loved that Reddit let me jump into any niche hobby, and instantly I had a community. Lemmy, you’ll be lucky if that community even exists, and if it does, chances are nobody has posted in ages.

On the other hand, Lemmy is full of political content lately. I’ve basically been doom scrolling everything US election-related, and it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health.

I know I can filter content. I know I can post and be the change I seek. Yet, it feels like an uphill battle.

Not sure what the point of this is, or if it’s even the right community to vent about this. I just really want to replace Reddit, but I find myself going back more and more (e.g. r/homekit is very active compared to Lemmy version).

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[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 7 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Block FlyingSquid, it improves the community a huge amount.

Do it before they drag you into an argument, lose, then ban you.

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk 6 points 2 hours ago

You'd be blocking half of Lemmy.

[–] LavenderDay3544@lemmy.world 11 points 5 hours ago

I like it as a platform but the userbase just isn't there.

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

If the BlueSky migration keeps up the pace, I think it will be a good bet that Reddit to Lemmy will be the next big user migration. There's signs it's already started, within the last year I've been here I've seen the community and sub-communities grow significantly and there's been an increase of self-proclaimed converts over the last several months.

[–] Scolding7300@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

I don't see the connection between Lemmy and Bluesky/reasoning, can you elaborate?

[–] niktemadur@lemmy.world 2 points 43 minutes ago* (last edited 37 minutes ago)

Probably the hope, not completely unfounded, that the migration from one "legacy" (from the 00s) platform to a more recent alternative service - twitter to Bluesky - will help inspire people in other legacy platforms to also realize that alternatives do exist now, they are part of a broader conversation that they weren't a part of even two years ago.

Even a year and a half ago, this place felt like it hadn't yet installed the drywall, the wiring and tubing was incomplete. Now it feels more seamless, ready for a spurt of growth.

"Hey... Bluesky isn't all that bad, I'm glad to be out of the clutches of a billionaire asshole, and not feel utterly lost here", now cue what OP believes a number of people will also think: "Hmm... maybe I'll check out Lemmy, too. See what the alternative to reddit is like."

Some of them could have tried it, didn't like it, might come back and be like: "Hey, Lemmy's not too bad since last I last looked a year ago", and here's a clincher that definitely wasn't here a year and a half ago: "The app works pretty good", and there are a lot of new apps, having a choice gives a sense and weight of legitimacy.

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[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 13 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Don't let your desire for something you want right now ruin something you can have in the future. At one point r/homekit didn't exist, didn't stop you from not caring.

[–] Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works 18 points 8 hours ago

I know I can post and be the change I seek.

Imo, this is your answer. I'm not sure exactly other solution you want. Content will not appear on Lemmy without someone first posting it. Advertising the platform to help draw people in is also important.

[–] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 8 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

You have fallen for the ultimate trick: wanting a "big" community.

You only get that from big, centralized social networks that want to maximize the amount of content you are fed, because it maximizes your ad views, and their profits.

Embrace the smallness. Lemmy still has room to grow, and having lot of different options for communication that aren't all owned by billionaires is a good thing. The fact that it isn't constantly trying to earn your attention is a feature, not a bug.

[–] Chozo@fedia.io 11 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

I don't think it's that we want "big" communities, necessarily, as much as we want active communities. For instance, if there's a niche game I want to talk about, it's currently a roll of the dice whether or not there's a Lemmy community for it, and then if it does exist already then it's pretty much guaranteed to see 2, maybe 3 posts per week, tops.

That's really the only thing I miss about Reddit, being able to pretty much always have a discussion on any topic you'd want, at any given time.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 2 points 1 hour ago

For instance, if there’s a niche game I want to talk about, it’s currently a roll of the dice whether or not there’s a Lemmy community for it, and then if it does exist already then it’s pretty much guaranteed to see 2, maybe 3 posts per week, tops.

Why not create a thread on a genre community like !jrpg@lemmy.zip or !fgc@lemmy.world ?

For niche things, you kinds have to go to reddit.

I mean the worst of reddit is on mainstream topics like politics anyways. You're less likely to see toxicity in like a gaming subreddit. (Less likely than politics anyways)

[–] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

People wanting more activity than the small exclusive private club Fediverse has become isn't a trick or capitalist fallacy, they just want other people to see their fucking posts. Is that so strange and wrong? Why post things if no one is going to see them? You're seriously missing the point of a social media, if you really think having small nearly dead spaces is a good thing.

[–] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 hours ago

A while back there was some issue with the Lemmy code and people kept being served posts that were over 6 months old. Peple started replying and the original posters were often "wow, you found my post!" It was kind of awesome.

[–] mintiefresh@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 hours ago

I believe in Lemmy and the fediverse. But the subreddits with content I like aren't here yet. So I still have to go back for that stuff.

But I always check here first.

[–] mlg@lemmy.world 13 points 10 hours ago

Jokes on you the political content here is from the redditors who pretended to quit their award fueled addiction by also joining lemmy.

Seriously though, compare c/Politics to c/Worldnews or c/News. There is a very large dissonance between the comments shared despite both communities posting the same news info..

[–] GhiLA@sh.itjust.works 19 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Politics is the one thing we all have in common.

The good old days where everyone watched the same five TV shows and discussed them are over.

[–] NorthWestWind@lemmy.world 9 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (7 children)

US Politics is the one thing ~~we~~ you all have in common.

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[–] UntitledQuitting@reddthat.com 7 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

firefly was mid, there I said it.

[–] CafeFrog@lemmy.cafe 6 points 7 hours ago

Straight to jail. Right away.

Everything Whedon has ever done was mid, and I'm going to be banned for saying that, probably.

[–] ZK686@lemmy.world 11 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

The thing I like about Lemmy is that they're not banning you over stupid shit.

[–] TheFrirish@jlai.lu 15 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Depends on your instance honestly

[–] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 10 hours ago

Oh they're still doing that just easier to make a new space after that happens

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 21 points 13 hours ago (8 children)

The Fediverse is virgin territory. The trails aren't blazed for you here; it's your job as an early adopter to make it the way you want it to be. You want a community? Start it and participate in it.

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[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

I hate reddit as a platform but I still have to use it every once in a while because people won't move to Lemmy/mbin/piefed.

I honestly don't understand it. People complain that they don't use the fediverse because it's small but somehow they don't realize if they just migrate over then it won't be.

It's aggravating how dumb people can be but hey, that's the world we're living in. I'll continue to use Lemmy and visit reddit if I have to.

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 8 points 12 hours ago

Yeah. It's the same with Mastodon. "There are a bunch of toxic people making me feel unwelcome" can be met with "so I left" or "so we flooded the place and took over, because there were only lile 800 people there"

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[–] Gointhefridge@lemm.ee 42 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Seeing all the cats made me realize that we need to all participate to make the community what we want it to be. It’s clear to me there are a lot of lurkers based on the influx of cat pictures. The more we start posting in ANY instance the more visibility there will be for active users.

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[–] stardust@lemmy.ca 8 points 12 hours ago

Whatever the social media ability to "create" your own algorithm is important. One way being a subscription and sticking to it.

Second being keyword filtering. I use Connect for Android which let's me filter out posts and communities containing keywords.

Same thing I do on reddit with reddit enhancement suite.

It's just the nature social media where anone can sign up.

[–] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 172 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (11 children)

Yes Lemmy is smaller and doesn't have instantly fully formed communities. Reddit has been around for almost 2 decades. Lemmy is newer, smaller, and actively fights the sorts of shenanigans that Reddit initially used to get big.

If you want more niche activity, make posts and interact with posts. Lemmy is user driven- that means you. It isn't a giant megasite where you can just expect to be a passive receiver of endless content.

[–] riquisimo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 8 hours ago

On Lemmy you feel like your voice is heard more because it's smaller, IMO.

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[–] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It’s not the size that matters. Just play with it for a while, maybe you’ll learn to like it.

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