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[–] MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Is there a fediverse alternative for Messenger? Because I currently partially use Discord as a non-Meta alternative.

[–] quips@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 hours ago

Matrix is fanstastic

[–] Atropos@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago (5 children)

My group mostly only uses discord for video chat during D&D. Is there a recommended alternative? We don't use ANY of the other features. I'm looking into jitsi now.

[–] quips@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Matrix (what some call element, element is a matrix client) has end to end video conferencing and is decentralized like Mastodon

[–] riquisimo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 hours ago

I used to use https://talky.io/ before discord.

[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Element w. Element call is ok. Signal works too

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 48 minutes ago

now its another thing to determine whether a server you are looking at has set up support for Element call, or is still on the older calling method not supported by the new apps...

[–] markko@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago

Haven't used it for a few years, but Jitsi was great if all you need is video chat

[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

This is what I and others I know use it for as well. Virtual dnd for one or two while the rest of us are in person.

[–] superglue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

What do i say to my friends to get them to leave? Ive already tried and they won't.

Sadly this change won't really affect them so they are not going to care. I've wanted to leave for a long time now.

[–] ohshit604@sh.itjust.works 16 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

What do i say to my friends to get them to leave? Ive already tried and they won't.

I just abruptly switched to Matrix and encouraged anyone who wanted to get a hold of me to do the same, held my ground and did not look back, now a good handful of my friends have a Matrix account.

[–] FauxLiving@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago

Same.

If someone isn't willing to take a minimum amount of effort to stay in contact with me, then I'm not losing much if I don't ever talk to them again. They don't have to quit Discord, they just have to find me elsewhere.

[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 9 points 8 hours ago

Just leave.

[–] Red_October@lemmy.world 42 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Fuck Discord is the common message now, but how about we amplify good alternatives? It'll be easier to tell Discord to fuck off if we're already set to move elsewhere.

[–] comador@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (3 children)

Alternatives

[–] Trilogy3452@lemmy.world 1 points 50 minutes ago* (last edited 49 minutes ago)

Teamspeak, Mumble? These were popular for gaming communities, not sure what happened to these apps

[–] rainbowbunny@slrpnk.net 7 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Keep in mind everyone that Stoat still doesn't currently protect it's users information and is centralized. It doesn't use encryption but it is very seamless.

You can host your own Stoat instance but it doesn't communicate with the main one.

The devs have said they plan to add more security features in the future yet still don't make it a priority. The host of Stoat should be able to see everyone's messages, including in DM's, due to the lack of E2E encryption.

Once they add more security features I imagine they will be much more popular in general.

[–] SnoringEarthworm@sh.itjust.works 11 points 6 hours ago

In my view, security isn't a feature, it's a design choice.

I have no ill wishes towards Stoat, but I've never seen a developer convincingly implement security after the fact.

[–] WormFood@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I looked in stoat's issue tracker and there is an issue asking for video chat which is 5 years old and still open. Safe to say it's a dead project.

[–] quips@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 hours ago

Matrix is mature enough, and has a better philosophy. Just the best choice atm.

[–] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Forum's, websites, all the shit we used to do.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 11 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The main thing I will miss from discord is the ease of streaming with a small group of friends. That was main reason we chose it over alternatives back in the day.

[–] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

In my day we just hung out with our friends....

/S

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 12 points 9 hours ago

Discord has made communicating with a small group of friends who moved to different cities stay in touch daily while playing games, chatting in voice, and streaming stuff to share. Voice and text are great, but the streaming is how we share the in game moments we used to be able to see in person.

[–] comador@lemmy.world 71 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Bye bye Discord, you were never that good to begin with anyway.

[–] 51dusty@lemmy.world 52 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

I will never understand the move from forums to discord. when discord is the only way to get assistance, I go find another product.

[–] silentjohn@lemmy.ml 6 points 7 hours ago

It was one of the first to make voice chat really really easy for gamers. Yes vent and ts existed before, but discord made it soooo easy and had integrated irc-style chat

[–] brsrklf@jlai.lu 32 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Discord is terrible for assistance.

Search is ineffective, you have to actually fight the UI to go back to older messages, depending on the device there are still somehow cases in which you can't go back to the beginning of a thread. But thank you for putting a huge reminder that I am currently "reading through old messages", silly me, why would I want to do that.

Oh, you're trying to scroll down through old posts? Let me suddenly refresh the list for no reason and bring you back to the most recent ones. Everything past the third screen might as well not exist anymore.

And of course, there is the slight problem of every useful info written there being completely invisible to the rest of the internet.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

What amazes me is how often there are a bunch of sweaty nerds in the chat willing to answer every lazy-ass question known to man.

If they expended a fraction of that effort on making a manual and a FAQ, they wouldn't even need a discord channel.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

It's easier to set up than a forum. I suppose. But messier.

A forum is much better suited for the purpose a lot of people are using Discord for.

They should be using Discord for voice chat and streaming, that's what it's good at. Use a fairly tool for what it does well. Not for what it does poorly.

[–] anon5621@lemmy.ml 9 points 10 hours ago

For me it was replacement for Skype when it became shit in 2016

[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 39 points 12 hours ago

Fuck Discord

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I hope me being in 30 different coomer discords helps me out

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

They've outright said you will need to verify regardless of what your current usage is.

[–] baronvonj@piefed.social 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Everything I've said is everybody is categorize as a teen unless the provide face/ID verification. So anonymous should still be allowed in general, just not to servers/channels set as age restricted.

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 6 points 10 hours ago

Correct, takeaway being that being they're not going to assume you're an adult because you're in a shit ton of coomer discords.

[–] GutterRat42@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

I'll just begin saying whippersnappers, and bees knees.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 3 points 11 hours ago

Shrek image still works?