iheartneopets

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[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Tbh, it sounds like she did try her best to clarify by mentioning her boyfriend before they actually went to the destination. I could easily see that she perceived her friend asking her to go hiking, so she excitedly agreed. Got home, realized what that would look like, and thought she might bring it up in a way that wouldn't look like the "I have a boyfriend, FYI" trope

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 1 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I understand what you're saying, but there's also a huge stigma around being a girl and leading with the fact that you have an SO. Like most things socially for women, it feels like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't when trying to befriend men most of the time.

I've personally tried both methods throughout my life, and have lost every friendship with men I've tried to have because of it. It gets pretty lonely, since the other women in my immediate community aren't really interested in my gaming hobbies. I end up a lot like this girl on the post, with no friends of either gender.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 4 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Everyone keeps saying she was flirting, but I really think she was just trying to make a friend, but everyone saw 'flirting' because of their genders. The post literally says she has no friends.

This is why women tend to be wary of friendships with guys; any time we do, we get come on to because any amount of friendly interaction is perceived as flirting, or ditched because the guy we thought we were trying to befriend finds out we have a boyfriend.

Shit, if I were this girl who struggled to make friends, thought I had found one finally, but get friend-dumped when they find out they can't fuck me (for the millionth time in her life, I'm sure), I'd probably quit, too.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 27 points 1 week ago

Because it happened in the state of Georgia, the state building a literal Police City?

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 24 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Ancient wine was actually not very good

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 1 points 2 weeks ago

There are some truly terrible remixes on repeat in TJ Maxx/Marshall's/Homegoods as well.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Be so serious, Mariah Carey's is far from the worst Christmas song in retail.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 3 points 3 weeks ago

It truly is like that Margaret Atwood quote, about men being afraid women will laugh at them, and women being afraid men will kill them.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 5 points 3 weeks ago

Next time I'm in an airport food court I'll try to really take in the view of the cinnabon next to the starbucks.

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 4 points 2 months ago

The second Apple rolled out face ID, I knew this tech was ready and waiting for forced ads

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

Fair enough!! Sometimes that's all you need

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Very cool question!!

-The Long Dark: I have hundreds of hours in this game across various platforms (maybe even a thousand-plus, all together?) and with the different settings to play with to change the difficulty in really interesting ways, I think I could easily sink another thousand. I'll leave the DLC behind, though, thanks.

-Red Dead Redemption 2: My favorite game of all time, even just as a cowboy-themed hunting and poker sim. If Baldur's Gate 3 and the stupid Guarma chapter didn't exist, I'd say it would be a slamdunk for best game of all time, period. I'm not autistic, but if I had a special interest, this would be it; it literally inspired my son's name.

-Elden Ring: In five years, maybe I could just figure out how to solo Malenia without cheesing my build, much less the final boss of the DLC :')

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