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They're a multinational corporation, they don't need us to host their shit for you to be able to read a goddamn article and learn something.
If you don't yet understand that they're evil that's on you.
But why do YOU get to choose for everyone else?
Choose what? If you want to find an instance unscrupulous enough to federate with that company then go for it. Who is stopping you?
People like OP here, begging admin to block it?
Like are you for real? He’s literally asking them to take my choice away.
It is always the admins' choice, that has never been any different. You are free to choose which instance you are part of.
This petition changes nothing about that.
“We need to defederate from them” is not a petition…
Also, you could just choose not to subscribe to them, go to a place where they are defederated, or even just block them yourself with the right apps.
That’s a whole lot of choice for you in a platform based around decentralization and user choice.
But on the flip side if you just make everyone defederate them, then you’re removing user choice completely just based on your personal feelings on the matter.
That doesn’t seem fair to me just because you personally hate something that I don’t.
We're not making anyone do anything. This is a pledge for admins to volunteer for, to send a message that this instance won't be welcome. There are going to be pariah instances, that's the nature of federation. If you can't find an instance to follow that federates with them, then that just means the thing you want is deeply, deeply unpopular.
If you care enough, you could join their instance. You could start your own instance and federate with them. Go for it. If and when your own instance becomes a pariah I'm sure you'll whine about people taking away your freedom to be an asshole at them online, because nobody can make you learn a lessom you're clearly set on not learning.
MFer how you expect me to find any if you keep going around begging them to wholesale block access.
Just don’t subscribe to it, or block it yourself! You don’t get to decide for everyone else what content they can access here
Your complete unresponsiveness to anything I've said leads me to ask a very simple and basic question: are you actually curious to understand my answer to your question?
Yeah bro I’m super curious why you get to decide for all of us what content we can see here. Please answer that I guess?
See what you did there? You didn't admit to being curious to understand what I'm saying. You dictated what you think I'm saying, then reframed your answer around that.
In effect, you appear to not be curious to understand me because you believe you already do.
If you actually were curious to understand, then the reply, "I don't get to decide for all of you what content you can see here" would be deeply alarming. It might cause you to stop and take stock, and wonder why I don't agree with your characterisation of what I have said.
Let me know if you actually want to hear what I have to say without putting a box around what you're prepared to hear.
I honestly would love to understand where you're coming from, but until I understand why you're so convinced I'm saying something I'm not, I don't see how I'll be able to.
Or you could just not ask your admin to block Threads for everyone else if you personally don’t want to see it.
Seems pretty straightforward which option leaves users the choice to decide for themselves what they want to see.
That way neither of us has to pretend to give a fuck what the other thinks. Hooray!
Ah, so there it is: "neither of us has to pretend to give a fuck what the other thinks"
You've said it. You've shown it in your behaviour and now you've said it. FWIW, I upvoted your honesty.
You have of course projected that attitude on to me, I imagine in order to assuage the creeping feeling that if you admit outright, with your whole chest, "I personally don't give a fuck what you think" you would expose yourself as irretrievably disingenuous. It's inescapable however. I have said that I am curious to understand what you have to say, and you threw that back in my face by telling me I wasn't. You are only responsible for your own curiosity, and you have said that you have none.
I'm sorry, I don't respect this method of engaging. It's a coward's way out, and it's why you are deeply unconvincing. When you just beat your head against the other person's comments and insist that they are wrong with no curiosity to understand their words, it leads to situations where you're asking, "MFer how you expect me to find any if you keep going around begging them to wholesale block access," when the answer to that question is in the comment you're replying to. If you never engage, if you never open your mind to other people's ideas, you can't respond to them in a coherent way.
Ironically, this entire thread is you claiming you want to hear a diverse range of ideas from Threads, which again, nobody is stopping you from doing. We're just saying we don't want to host them. That's a different thing.
What I don't understand is why you don't support us using our voices to support defederation. Sounds like you're trying to silence us. That makes sense of course, since you've just said you don't care what we have to say. It's the WHY that I don't understand, but I've never had an answer to this question.
Because you should let us adults decide for ourselves personally what content we want to see here, not attempt to block and censor stuff JUST BECAUSE TOU DON’T LIKE IT.
Let people choose for themselves, that’s all I’ve ever been advocating for here, user choice.
If the people overwhelmingly want it defederated from their preferred servers, then do it.
I don’t ultimately care if servers decide to block it, as long as it’s done properly.
People here deserve to have that choice, that was always the point of decentralization.
And it is our choice to say we want to defederate. That is literally all this is.
I would ask why you can't understand this, but you've already said you don't care to, so that's clearly the reason.
What if some of us don't care if they're evil?
Then feel free to go to threads or somewhere that does federate with them. You don't have to stay on a particular instance if they don't federate with something you want to engage with.
That's your freedom of choice.
There is no plan for kbin to defederate with Threads, which is why I'm here you dolt. Maybe you should leave.
Makes sense, Kbin is one of the most lax instances when it comes to moderation and defederation, and that's why they're considered so bad when it comes to spam and illegal content.
I like the freedom of kbin but also maintain an account on Beehaw because they are the complete opposite with frustratingly strict moderation to the point of moderators telling people to check their naughty language at the door (which is totally understandable).
However the serious problem with Kbin's very lax approach is that it invites some really nasty people who will exploit it. I heard an admin say that a majority of the spam and CSAM attacks have come either from kbin.social or other kbin instances, and at the time it was made worse by a bug that prevented mod actions from federating from kbin, meaning the content stays up even after moderated on its home server. It wasn't great.
The fuck is wrong with you?
Then get fucked?
Meta are largely responsible for the current state of affairs right now. Nearly every current war, genocide, fake news, and more can be tied back to Meta.
Are you seriously simplifying all current conflicts caused down to simply social media? So if we completely remove all social media, humanity instantly becomes the utopian society from science fiction. STFU with this stupidity you ignorant child.
Simply? No.
Dangerously and deliberately engageful? Yes.
Look at the impact of FB in the Rohingya genocide for fucks sake.
Fucking right wing wanker.
Then you're evil. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Go ahead, be evil. It is certainly your prerogative.
Edit: just look at how many votes "But what if some of us don't care if they're evil?" got. Like, what a wild-ass bullshit thing to say. This thread is definitely being astroturfed.
I've noticed a lot of turfing on all of these threadsfed posts. It's becoming more and more. People just need to get a threads account if it's so important to them.
Well they're clearly aware of us, we can't pretend we're just a bunch of silly little beans doing our own thing anymore. Of course they're going to do this. There is literally not a single reason for them not to.
It just sucks how rapidly it's becoming. Can't even spend a year in bliss before the shitheels arrive.
Sad but true. I think the only way anything could ever be restored to the bygone tangible days of the Internet would be to destroy Meta, fully.
Yeah, but the reason we need federation in the first place is because of the relentless onslaught of monopoly.
I think this is a good prpblem to have. The fediverse gets to test itself against the largest established social media network, and honestly I don't see a way for them to win. You can ses it in these replies - they are scared of this boycott. Even more exciting now that I think of if - this isn't a consumer boycott like we're used to. This is a boycott by the producers. The instances create the network, so their voices are much more important.
It is exciting. I've been impressed by the response to this. Reading between the astroturfing, there's a community with a sense of purpose here.
Thanks to all who are here genuinely!
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I'm old enough to know better than be excited. I haven't seen a single good community have staying power in the time of the entire internet. And it's only getting worse. Especially when a billion dollar tumor takes interest in where you're at.
What I do find interesting and alarming is how aggressive Meta is in seeking out the small inconsequential pockets of the Internet and crushing them. They're so deadset on fuxing any collective not being monitored by their government backed all seeing eye. It will be interesting to see how a federated social network holds up but I wouldn't assume they don't already have at least five game plans to crush it.
We should have rules against turfing like this in the community, and remove or ban people suspected of it. I get the benefits of having a neutral place but at the same time we don't allow advertising here so why should suspected astroturfing be any different.
It's sarcasm. I upvoted them because I would have said something similar to highlight the absurdity of any argument against defederating with Threads.
Read their replies. They are apparently being sincere. You have fallen victim to Poe's law.
Oh fuck...
Really?
https://kbin.social/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/706547/-/comment/4154704
Sorry, I don't like it any more than you do. :/
Lol
Thanks, it is my prerogative.
This is the point of the freedom of federated communities: we can read whatever the fuck we want from wherever the fuck we want without having authoritarian censor-heavy limp-wrist adult-baby moderators and corporate fascists determining what we are allowed to read or affiliate with.
The freedom to read both sides and control what I want to interact with on my own will, and make my own decisions is why I'm fucking here. I don't want people like you making decisions for me, go fuck yourself.
Thanks for noticing I'm evil. I'll go make a nice blood sacrifice to my effigy of Satan by eating another baby.
Right, so nobody's stopping you from joining threads, or making your own instance. You can call it evil.villain. Why don't you?
So when they steamroll this place so hard you only get their side of the story, what then?
I promise you nothing is going to get steamrolled, you are simply being very ignorant.
In fact, I will @ you with a reminder in 30 days as a reply to this message of how mundane and routine everything is to prove you are wrong.
Well fucking said.
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