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[–] Cpo@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The paintshop job with the letters is awesome.

[–] robocall@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Thank you for noticing πŸ₯°

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] Turbonics@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Why make friends when you can make enemies? - Lemmy

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

That does indeed often seem to be the case, sadly.

[–] robocall@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Me too, thanks.

No but I might be like that with self hosting stuff.

People care about Spotify, but not their own private Spotify, does not compute!

[–] independantiste@sh.itjust.works 69 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I wouldnt tell anyone i use Reddit irl let alone Lemmy

[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

My issue was them asking what social media I used.

I sometimes said Reddit cause saying nothing sometimes got me perplexed looks.

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 47 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I never told anyone I used Reddit, but I've def told many about Lemmy (within my foss propaganda I regularly administer upon the unsuspecting, if need be at the urinals).

(Still won't ever share my username, I don't like people like that)

[–] Monstrosity@lemm.ee 29 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I started using Reddit in 2008 (kill me). One of the of the defining traits of the site at the time was the fact everything was anonymous. It was considered taboo to expose your Reddit persona to your irl circles. Hell, I still don't have an email associated with my Reddit account.

It's been interesting, and a little tragic, to watch that attitude erode over the years and then see Reddit itself encourage the idea of creating a unique identity to cash in.

Lemmy is way more like the original Reddit & I'll actually admit to using Lemmy, even though no one knows wtf I'm on about.

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah, was on Reddit almost daily since prob around 2008 too, up till only a bit over two years ago.

The anonymity within one account(name) is great, don't need or want more for interaction online.

It's great for introverted social interaction.

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[–] robocall@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

(Still won’t ever share my username, I don’t like people like that)

someone in IRL asked me my username once, and I thought it was so weird. Of course, I didn't tell them.

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[–] robocall@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I've heard people say, "I saw X on Reddit" I don't think it's stigmatized.

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[–] SolarMonkey@slrpnk.net 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I only mention Lemmy as a caution, like what to avoid, while I’m mentioning other fediverse social media..

Because I’m a woman and most of the people I know who want social media alternatives are also women, and I’m not subjecting them to this shitshow. I like them too much to bring them here.

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 4 points 6 days ago

It's like people think FOSS means considerate. It means it's the wild west, with a few zealous moderators who care way more about respecting femboys than women.

[–] robocall@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Perhaps I am so conditioned to concealing my gender online that I haven't experienced misogyny here, but I felt like most the community are feminists.

[–] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I read a similar sentiment yesterday in a thread about apparent misogyny on lemmy. As someone affected, what would you suggest be done to improve the situation?

I must say I have rarely observed the issue myself and if so the offenders generally get down voted to hell and eventually mod deleted. Though I am of course a dude and not frequenting the women centric spaces, so my perception is definitely skewed.

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[–] SuperSleuth@lemm.ee 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Reddit is entirely a "normie" platform now. 6 years ago I was actually made fun of for using it, but now even my grandparents talk about it.

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[–] JizzmasterD@lemmy.ca 59 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Bragging about Lemmy is just a vessel for bragging about Linux.

[–] Sorse@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bragging about Linux is just a vessel for bragging about your sick gaming PC.

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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 9 points 1 week ago

I mained Lemmy before I mained Linux.

[–] Isa@feddit.org 34 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Lemmy is cool, but that kind of behaviour is quite disgusting to be honest.

[–] robocall@lemmy.world 77 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] jared@mander.xyz 53 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

Call some fiends, there are lots of urinals still free!

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 33 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's 2025. We should be able to piss right next to each other and check each other's cocks out.

[–] quinceyBones@lemmy.zip 26 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] troyunrau@lemmy.ca 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

With Lemmy, there could be multiple /c/ock communities -- one per instance haha

[–] QuazarOmega@lemy.lol 17 points 1 week ago

I'll check your /c/ock once it's up then

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[–] 3dmvr@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago

man took this post extremely serious lol

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[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 26 points 1 week ago

Me in the yellow shirt: ..... (turning towards you suddenly in surprise without thinking) .... LEMMY! ... ME TOO!!!!! ... (as I'm smiling and spraying you with urine)

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 25 points 1 week ago (2 children)

At least he's not using the same urinal.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago (1 children)

His urinal is on a different instance.

[–] KryptoSynth@ani.social 2 points 6 days ago

The federated peeing platform.

[–] midnight_puker@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

More often than not when I mention Lemmy to someone, it's after they've told me about something they saw on reddit and their reply is invariably, "what the fuck is Lemmy?"

[–] Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

I sent someone a screenshot and they asked what wefwef was because it showed the name in the top left of the screen shot as like a β€˜go back to your last app’ link. Turned into a short painful discussion that I was happy to be over. Sometimes I think people are purposefully obtuse though and it reminded me why I don’t talk about technology with most everybody I know IRL.

"Lemmy is reddit methadone." Is my go-to answer.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's rare to see a meme taken with a camera. This one's gotta be a collectors item.

[–] MeatPilot@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm going to add this comment to my scrap journal.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Love it. I'm in the history books!

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Its probably a screenshot taken from an app that adds a fade to black at the top

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's totally not believable.

Blue shirt didn't even mention Arch!

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 1 points 6 days ago

He's somehow attached to old Ubuntu builds

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